I'm always amused by the search for the female Viagra. Mostly because I'm not sure what the speaker means when they say a "female Viagra" and I'm pretty sure they don't know what they mean either! Like the search for the Holy Grail, this mission is daunting.

If you mean you are searching for something that will bring a woman's blood into her clitoral and vaginal area in the same way that Viagra does for men, you need look no further. Viagra, good old Viagra (the very same blue pill that the guys take) will do the same thing for women. Ta-da. You found the female Viagra.

However, I suspect most people mean something quite different when they use the term. I think they are looking for a pill which will make sex "better" for women. But what does that mean?

It could mean any of the following:

1. I'm looking for a pill which will make a woman aroused when she's having sex.

2. I'm looking for a pill which will make a woman want to have sex.

3. I'm looking for a pill which will help a woman have a better orgasm.

4. I'm looking for a pill which will make women less inhibited when they are having sex.

Here's a secret. Viagra does only one thing for men: make it possible to have a hard and strong erection by enabling blood flow to the penis. Strong blood flow to the genitals is arousal for women, too. So we've got a solution to #1!

If a guy has a low libido, or can't have an orgasm, chances are Viagra will do little to nothing for him. And the same applies to women. It's just that with men, the erection is such a critical and visible component to sex that it feels like having an erection means all obvious problems are solved. For these men, problems with desire or orgasm will require additional medical intervention and the same goes for women.

I know it is really hard to believe, but there are plenty of women out there who get aroused easily and have great orgasms and still find their desire incredibly low. There are also women who are dying to have sex, but their bodies just don't get aroused by normal stimuli. And there are women, who want to have sex, get turned on and can't have an orgasm. And we all know women who want sex, get turned on, have orgasms but just can't seem to feel comfortable having their partner see them naked. What a complicated group we are.

So I guess what I'm trying to say is that a "one size fits all," medication is just a pipe dream and not realistic when it comes to women. (Frankly, I don't think it's so realistic when we are talking about men either - and Viagra is often seen as a panacea it is not --but that's a topic for a different newsletter.)

What I'm searching for, just in case anyone is interested... is many "Viagras;" that is, many different solutions - medical, pharmaceutical, hormonal, behavioral and psychological - which will address the varied elements of women's sexuality. Once those solutions exist, you will just need a practitioner savvy enough to know when to use each one.

There is a large percentage of women all over the world who suffer from the problem of a loose vagina which is quite an embarrassing condition and hence most of the women opt to keep a silence on this subject and keep on suffering throughout their life but in today's changing times a lot of women have started looking out for remedies which can help in tightening up their vagina. In this article we are going to discuss about some of the factors that lead to loosening up of a vagina and some effective remedies which can be used at home to tighten a vagina.

Causes Of A Loose Vagina

A woman's vagina plays a variety of roles like sexual intercourse and child-birth. Both these conditions cause lot of stress to the vagina resulting in vaginal walls losing their elasticity over a period of time making vagina loose and bring down feeling of penetration for both the partners which can further lead to problems in a relationship because it is a well established fact that men prefer having sex with women with tighter vagina which is proved by their inclination to have sex with young virgin girls.

Remedial Measures

In recent times women have opted for vagina tightening surgery which is a quickest way to get a tighter vagina but the recent reports of dangerous side effects associated with the surgical procedure along with the high costs has made women look for help in the alternative form of medicine.

Home Remedies For Vaginal Tightening

There are some very effective home remedies which have been used by Asian women for thousands of years to enhance their sexual life. Let us examine two of the most effective remedies available in alternative medicine to tighten a vagina.

1. Kegel Exercises

This method does not exactly come under the natural form of medicine but it is highly effective. It involves a set of exercises targeted towards the pelvic area helping in strengthening the vaginal walls. Doing these exercises for a period of 1-2 months can rejuvenate your vaginal health.

2. Vagina Tightening Creams

These are herbal formulations made from herbs which have rich skin tightening properties like aloe. They are applied directly to the vaginal area and apart from making the vagina tighter they also make it free from bad odor and provide lubrication for smooth penetration.

Women are finding these herbal formulations highly beneficial because of the instant results they provide and absence of any side effects.